You Can Hit the Reset Button Anytime (Maybe You Need To Right Now)
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This one's for you if everything feels out of control and you're not quite sure how you got here.
Maybe the holidays are coming and things are already starting to spiral. Maybe a health issue came up that required doctor's visits and personal reflection. Maybe there's family stress - someone got sick, someone passed away, relationships got complicated.
Maybe you took a vacation and completely unplugged, and now you're back trying to remember where you left things.
Or maybe life just got overwhelming and it's all starting to feel kind of fuzzy in your head.
Sound familiar?
Here's what I'm learning about falling off track
We all need to hit the reset button sometimes. And I mean that literally.
I imagine one of those big red buttons you can get at the store that makes a really satisfying noise when you push it. I imagine it says "RESET" right on it.
You can push that button any day of the week, any time of the day, and just say: "Okay, I'm restarting."
When I know I need to reset
The holidays are coming up. I have a tendency to make things bigger than I probably need to. It gets a little bit out of control. My daughter's birthday falls in there too.
So I'm already looking at this with anticipation, realizing I'm going to have to check myself along the way and probably hit the reset button at various times throughout this holiday season.
My grandmother passed away recently. Had to travel and spend time with family. Took time off of work. Came back and had to pick up where I left off.
Reset button.
Other times you might need to reset:
A personal health issue comes up that adds to your overwhelm.
A family stressor throws everything off.
You go on vacation and completely unplug (which is good!), but coming back means figuring out where you left things.
Life just got messy and you need to clear your head.
Any of these. All of these.
How to actually reset
Go back to any of the strategies that work for you - time blocking, energy regulation, getting started on projects, the color chart, whatever. (I always start with time blocking.)
You pick up and you start again.
Without guilt. Without judgment about why you're here or how you got here or how you're going to move forward.
What I do when I reset
For me, it often requires a few minutes of just thinking: What are my priorities right now? What do I need to get moving on? Which small steps are going to have more of an impact than others?
And you might even just say to yourself: "Okay, here we are again."
Sometimes you just have to pick back up and start. And that's okay.
Big Idea
Needing to reset isn't failure. It's not evidence that you can't maintain good habits or that nothing works for you.
It's just life.
Holidays happen. Health issues come up. People we love pass away. Vacations are necessary. Things get overwhelming.
The reset button is here for you. We all need it.
The key is hitting it without the guilt and judgment. Without the story about how you "should" have been able to maintain everything perfectly no matter what life threw at you.
Just: "Here we are. Starting again. That's okay."
PS. I'm actually doing this today after a low motivation day yesterday. Just a random Thursday in the middle of the month. Starting again...
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