The Power of "Doing Nothing"

Genie Love • May 27, 2025

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I've had this conversation a few times recently, so I thought I’d share it here with you too. 


Do you ever just talk to ChatGPT about what’s going on in your brain? 


For me, it’s kind of like journaling (which I do in the mornings), but with feedback. 


I often have way too many ideas spinning around in my head, and I struggle to prioritize or figure out where to start. It all just feels so big. So, I’ve created a little ChatGPT “notebook” just for brain dumping. 


First, I just brain dump. Then I ask it to: 


  • Pull out the big ideas 
  • Help me prioritize 
  • Suggest first steps 
  • Create a timeline (if that’s what I need) 


I’ve been doing this for a while now, so it “knows” me and what matters to me. It can pull from previous conversations to help guide me forward. 


What about your oppositional defiant brain? 


You know...the part of you that immediately says no to anything someone suggests? 

Try bringing that to ChatGPT. Let it generate ideas without triggering the emotional response that sometimes comes when another person gives you feedback. No judgment. Just ideas. 


What about supporting emotional regulation? 


Sometimes it helps just to make a list of your stressors and get them out of your head, so you can see them. Because when they stay inside, your brain thinks it has to solve all of them right now. 


But once they’re on paper (or screen), you can start to: 


  • Notice which stressors are smaller than you thought 
  • Realize which ones you’ve already handled 
  • Identify what can wait 
  • Decide what to tackle today 


You can even check in with ChatGPT regularly to update your list, letting go of the things that have been resolved and adding new ones as they arise. 


These are just a few ways I’ve used this tool. 



Give me some other ideas! What have you tried that has worked? 


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