Sometimes My Brain Feels Like a Snow Globe

Genie Love • August 27, 2025

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My daughter used to say, "I just want to go home" when she was completely overwhelmed and felt out of control (even though she was home and safe). It's like inside her head felt too hard to be in, and she wanted to escape somewhere calm.



Too much noise. Too loud. Too busy. Chaotic.



These are words my clients use to describe what's happening in their brain when it's all just too much. Too overwhelming.



To me, when it all feels out of control and I finally notice it and stop, it feels like a snow globe settling. The swirling slows down, the chaos quiets, and I can think again.



The key is finally noticing that this is going on inside your brain. And, it's really hard to do.



When Your Brain Feels Like a Snow Globe



You're using too many words when talking. Going in circles, over-explaining, can't get to your point. If you notice you're spiraling when you talk, that's good. That's the first step.



Too many things going on. Everything feels urgent and overwhelming. You're stuck or frozen but also frantic. Just notice that it's happening.



Too many ideas. You're bouncing from one to another and can't seem to stick to any and see it through. Good, just start by noticing it.



Spiraling negative self-talk. "Everyone else has it figured out. This is all about to fall apart." Just try to notice it when it's happening.



Here's What You Can Do



Just notice that it's happening. That's it.



Try one of these (whatever feels doable right now):



  • Turn your phone off. Turn your monitor off. Do nothing for a couple of minutes.
  • Go for a short walk, even if it's just to the end of your driveway or hallway.
  • Stare out the window. Just look.
  • Circular breathing (breathe in through your nose, out through your mouth, like you're blowing out birthday candles).
  • Rub your fingertips together and pay attention to all the sensations you feel.
  • Breathe deeply into your belly.
  • Take a sip of your drink and really notice the temperature, the taste, how it feels going down.



Be Gentle With Yourself



It's very hard to catch the chaotic brain when it's happening. Even if you only realize hours later..."Oh, that's what was happening this morning when I couldn't think straight"...that's still good. That's still building your awareness and noticing skills.



You don't have to be perfect at this. Just start by noticing. The snow globe will settle when you give it time.



Tell me, what does your busy brain feel like?



P.S. A short Instagram video in the comments of Dr. Andrew Huberman demonstrating a breathing technique that's new to me. I'll be giving it a try. 




Want to learn more about my work?


Website: https://neuroautonomy.com/


YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt_ciMlkbqElTXqRZLLWWGg


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/genielove_coaching/

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