Time-Blocking That Actually Works for You

Genie Love • September 23, 2025

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This one's for you if you’ve tried Getting Things Done and failed. You've attempted eating the frog, Pomodoro, implemented the 2-minute rule, and cycled through every productivity system promising to transform your chaos into order.


And… still looking at a monster to-do list.


And…you blame yourself for lacking discipline or focus. What if the systems were the problem, not you?


Here's what I discovered about why most time-blocking fails


I had a client who meticulously planned her day in 30-minute chunks: 9:00-9:30 emails, 9:30-10:00 project work, 10:00-10:30 calls. By 10:15, she was already behind schedule and gave up on the whole thing by Tuesday.


With zero flexibility built in, and everything on her schedule looking like a priority, one minor delay could derail her entire day, leaving her frustrated and convinced she was "bad at time management."


Sound familiar? We've been told that the "right" system will fix us. That if we just have enough discipline, enough focus, enough... whatever... we'll master our time.


Most of my clients have either tried time-blocking and given up because it didn’t work for them or they completely ignore it because it’s just another strategy that won’t stick.


Here's what I've learned works...


Start with reflection, not planning. I spend 5-7 minutes daily looking at my calendar one week ahead. I don't jump into scheduling. I just absorb what's coming. I ask myself: "What do I need to accomplish to feel prepared for what's ahead?"


Think in bigger blocks. I schedule 1-1.5 hour blocks if possible. Anything under 45 minutes goes on my "quick tasks" checklist. Your brain needs time to settle into complex work.


Here's what most people miss: Limit yourself to 1-2 truly difficult tasks per day.


That's it.


Everything else (emails, routine calls, administrative work) gets batched into "quick tasks" blocks. For me, writing this newsletter is my hard thing today. But, there are always emails and social media to monitor, phone calls and appointments to make for personal life, following up, finishing client notes…these get batched into shorter time-blocks. 


The hard/easy distinction is completely personal to you.


I schedule the basics too. Meals, dog walks, picking up my daughter, etc. If it matters to my day, it gets a block.


Most importantly? I build in flexibility.


Life happens. Meetings run long. Kids get sick. Stuff comes up. When my day goes sideways (not if, when), I just reset tomorrow. It’s never perfect.


What I really want you to know


Time-blocking isn't about creating the perfect schedule. It's about creating sustainable systems that work with YOUR brain.


The clients who succeed with this approach stop trying to optimize every minute and start protecting their energy for what truly matters. They give themselves permission to be human while still getting important work done.


So I'm curious...


What would change for you if you scheduled just one or two hard things tomorrow and gave yourself grace for everything else?


Let me know what you discover.


PS. There is a lot on my to-do list that won’t get done today. That’s just how it goes. 



Want to learn more about my work?


Website: https://neuroautonomy.com/


YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt_ciMlkbqElTXqRZLLWWGg


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/genielove_coaching/

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